"I can make it work for me! It must be anything but.. Possible !"

"No, it is Impossible.."

-IMPOSSIBLE? WHAT IMPOSSIBLE? Is it that simple for you to put an end to an issue with it?

As a matter of fact, the word itself can sound quite simple and innocent. Even when we hear about something startling, most of us tend to say "Impossible! ". And let me ensure you , it is uttered the same way in most languages.

Well, but when it comes to Me , I try really hard, no matter what, just to omit that oh-so-innocent word from my lexicon and in this discussion, I will try with the most tenacious side of me to persuade you to do so!

First-off, want to admit that in my point of view impossibilities are just thought-up statements.

And Matter-of-factly that's the reality you don't want to perceive. Just like my friend from Twitter, Online-Writerpreneur, Copywriter and Marketer , Mr. Wilkes said :

" POSSIBLE AND IMPOSSIBLE ARE STATES OF MIND , WAYS OF THINKING, STRUCTURES OF REALITY AND EXPERIENCE , LIMITATIONS OF THINKING."

Then why not to change the way you think and leave limitations behind for the sake of "Better You"?

Let's consider.

There is an occurrence where something is conjectured as an impossible thing to get, achieve or whatever. 

Your reaction: 

Hopelessly losing all faith on possible chances and overstressing the situation. 

Poor you. 

So what you decide to do next? Are you thinking about giving up ?

Not because it's just too soon to give it up, reality is that you will leave it alone for SOMEONE ELSE. Someone who will get it not as an IMPOSSIBILITY but a chance for a new OPPORTUNITY.

Here, giving up would be a horrendous mistake.

"It always seems impossible until it's done" 

You have never heard it?

Since there is always some particular thing one is capable to do and one not, why not to call it as MATTER OF CAPABILITIES instead of IMPOSSIBILITIES? It makes the meaning quite diverse and it changes the way you react it!

Well, there shouldn't be an assumption that an impossible thing is an impossible thing and simply, I can make the case for that statement as an obsoletely individual occurrence.

Bear in mind, an impossible called thing is mostly an available choise for one and not for the other.

If so, calling it matter of capabilities is rather acceptable.

You probably have never thought how this 10 letter word can make everything go 10.000 times worse.

I mean the word itself carries the whole negativity of failure.

And here, its intention and real content reveals :

A total halter of success, destroyer of determination, courage and hope inside a creature called human.

Okay, now let's refer it to personality types as they're utterly diverse. 

Think about an issue that seems unbelievably hard to solve, call it an impossible thing.

An optimist would probably try to see the possible side 

A pessimist would stuck with the idea of impossible itself and giving it up he would abandon it and take a nap instead of searching for a possibility.

A perfectionist would try to seek something a way more possible out of the impossible situation even if it's entirely out of control.

With all these ideas, it's crucial to believe in power of positivity.

And please, let me enlighten you my talking point again,

I strictly don't want you to left reality behind and try to do something unattainable. You just need to confront Possibilities in order to decide what to do next.

All I want is you to see the bright side and to stop using "impossible " as you surely know the reason why.

My own Personal experience:

Going to keep it possibly short. So, I've always wanted to be a pilot since from my first introduction to airplanes. But once when I'd vital health problems I lost all my hope and faith.

 For everything. But no, not all. 

There was a little hope in a very tiny space of my heart. Yes.

And I stopped to use the word impossible and guess why.

As I faced some shit that I have never believed before I would come across one day and always said "No, it's impossible!" I comprehended that life is full of pleasant and unpleasant possibilities rather than impossibilities! 

When nothing is sure, everything is possible. That was what I learned.

Side note : Now I'm okay and able to pursue my dream - to get a PPL.

But as time flies and I'm not the pilot, I got other dreams to pursue first, thus I postponed it for a while...

Now you know a little story of me.

Be prepared to possibilities, friend!

But I wish you not to face the unpleasant ones...

Anyway, now I have something to share with you. That's the positive side, right?

That's why I'm determined to persuade you to stop the usage of the word impossible and deep down to believe in power of positivity !

Here, A citation that I got remembered , it is from Audrey Hepburn:

" NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE, THE WORD ITSELF SAYS I'M POSSIBLE!"

Oh, please, see ? I'm not the only one with unconditional hatred and unacceptance to this word!

In conclusion, if a thing is ever possible it is not considered as an impossible thing. Right?

Knowing that in life everything is truely possible than what's the point in banging about impossibilities?

And it MEANS please STOP searching even for a synonym and live your life open to new opportunities and predominantly, to new possibilities!

Achieve the Impossible!

Thanks for sharing your precious time reading my first article. Sorry for the excess use of "thing" and for any grammatical mistake. I can be forgiven. (Disturbance of T9 typing, freezing tablet, you know, sort of things that newbies come across )

Good luck! :)

Sincerely,

Aiden SummerDaisy